31 October, 2011

Bad Blogger

A few people requested that I put the word out about events that are on BEFORE they actually happen instead of just blogging about them after. Fair call and actually a good idea (derrr)so Thursday I posted a link on the blog’s facebook page to a gig I was going to on Friday night. Except I didn’t up going. Naughty naughty.

A version of this post has slowly been percolating in the back of my mind and I had gone back and forth with myself as to whether to post about it at all or not. I was leaning more towards not until I realised that people would probably be expecting a Monday post about the gig. The gig that I didn’t go to. So here it is.

I have been running myself into the ground. I have been doing too much. I have been putting too much of myself into things and not seeing much in return. Certainly not enough to justify letting my health and my happiness slide. I need to take a step back. Don’t freak out. I’m not breaking up with the blog. The exact opposite in fact.

I need to be the best version of me in order to make this blog be the best it can be. And lately I have been failing at being the best version of me. I’ve been sick, busy and just generally a bit unhappy. I’d just gotten over 3 weeks of kidney infection which saw a trip to the hospital in the back of an ambulance only to end up sick again for another whole week with a feral cold.

I am wishing my life away. I’m not looking forward to the future, I’m waiting for this time to be over. And that is NOT who I am. I am a happy-go-lucky girl with a wicked sense of humour, an inquisitive mind and the ability to find positives everywhere. But lately I’ve lost my mojo, I don’t feel like me and I don’t like it.

So. I’m having a little rest. Taking a step back. Remembering to breathe. Spending quality time with people. Letting myself relax instead of working full time, going out all the time, blogging, trying to stay active in the blogging community and being a social media addict. It’s not a drastic step back. I’ll still being doing all of those things, just on a slightly smaller scale.

Spending the weekend being a homebody, snuggled up on the couch watching movies and doing very little at all was so…renewing. Just what I needed and I’m sure after a little bit more time to recharge my batteries I will be back at it full throttle, only I will be a little wiser in my time management including remembering my ‘off’ switch.

It doesn’t mean I’m going underground. It just means I might not post EVERYDAY. Don’t worry, if I have something to say I WILL tell you about it…but if not, or I don’t feel like it, I will take the day off so to speak. I’ll still reply to your comments, emails, twitters etc. I just need to ease off the pace for a bit. That being said, a few opportunities have presented themselves in the last few days that will add to my list of things I do. Am I crazy, you ask? Probably, BUT they’re not starting right away, they won’t take up that much time and I already know I need to handle things better.

I want to be the best I can be for this blog and its readers because I love it and you guys too much to let it be crap or burn myself out to the point where I abandon ship. I hope you understand.

25 comments (+add yours?)

Katie said...

Bloody hell lady! A trip in an ambulance is defiantly time for a rest, sounds like your doing the right thing for you. xx

Sheri Bomb said...

Thanks Katie :) I have a lovely holiday coming up soon too which I know is going to be just what I need and will give me HEAPS to blog about ;) This time of year always gets hectic :)

Amy@MyLifeasaCake said...

Love whatever you can put up on your blog, whenever you can do it. Blogging should excite you, not be another thing on your to-do list. You deserve some serious relaxation time!

Tony said...

Hey Sheri,When you host up coming events is just to let people know about them, I don't see any reason why you need to be going to an event before you can list it. Its just like a notice board!:)

We Only want the real, Original Sheri Bomb and will take her any way that suits, What's best for you is what matters the most. We will always be here :) Hugs

Sheri Bomb said...

Thanks Amy, I totally agree!

Tony, thanks very much :) I know it won't be long til I'm back to my old self again...I just need a tiny little rest.

Hayley said...

I think you are probably making the right decision..though hopefully you will be back before we know it. Look after yourself Sheri..I will miss you x

Sheri Bomb said...

Thanks Hayley but I'm not going away totally! I'll still be blogging and doing what I do, just not quite as regularly :)

Mrs BC said...

Oh you poor chicken - you do what you need to do to be the best person you can be, for yourself, not just your lovely blog.
PM me if there is anything I can do :)
xx

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